As human being: Sebuah pesan dalam kepelikan hidup (English Version)

The way we should love ourselves isn’t because we are perfect. No one is perfect basically. Everyone has their own mistakes. They have their own failure, sorrow, loneliness, difficult choices, and all difficult times in their life.

If you have problem right now, I hope you’re gonna enjoy my writing in this section. I have problem, all people around people you have problem too. So, we are same right? I hope as soon as possible we can heal ourselves. Don’t wait for others. It’s your turn to talk, love, and heal youself.

So, one thing we should remind to ourselves is God gives trouble to all His creation in this earth even in this world. Not only to human, but also animals even plants. Do you ever see a beautiful plant at the side of road in summer, it starts fall and dry. When it really needs water and no one cares. Don’t you think that beautiful plant in it’s problem? And I believe all of you often see wild cat at side of road or in traditional market even wild cat that loiter in your house area. Don’t you even see sometimes the cat wasn’t adult yet, it’s still baby, alone, without mom, feeling cold and starving and no human cares to it. Everyone ignores it. Don’t you think that the cat is really pity. A baby cat that should live in sadness and complicated trouble.

Hi dear, I know sometimes you have complicated problem in your whole life too. You really have right to stop moving for a while. You are very entitled to cry, to be sorrow, to be alone, and to do what you think it can be impingement of all your problem you have. It doesn’t be wrong. You need to do that. Everyone has their own way to decrease their over-thinking when they’re in trouble. I did so.

But one other thing you should remind to yourself too is to talk with yourself. Please, take your me-time and contemplate to all problems you are facing. You need to take a breath, you need to be alone. You need to rest your brain from negative thinking, fullfil your soul with thankfulness. You have to try going around in purposeless place with motorcycle, car, bike, even with taking a walk. It’ll make you better soon. Or other way, you can go to quiet place alone, take your deep breath with closing your eyes, listen to sound of wind blowing, start to contemplate with youself. Please tell to yourself you can pass all these complicated trouble, tell to yourself that you really love yourself, no matters what.

 

NB: Please do love yourself, even you have no shoulder to lean on, even you have no one to tell all these sadness and sorrow. Please keep smiling and be strong. You’ll find your rainbow after your heavy rain. J